Brother ID: 635 | Born: 1984
ID#: 635
Male
Year of Birth: 1984
Height: 5’10”
Body Type: Average
City of Residence: Dearborn Heights
State: Michigan
US Citizen: Yes
Origin: Lebanon
Language: English, Arabic
What sect do you adhere to: Shia
Marital: Divorced
Do you have Children: Yes ( Live with part time )
Level Education: Doctoral Degree / ph.D
Occupation: Organizational Consultant
Smoking: Does not smoke
Will you accept someone who smokes: Maybe
Will you marry someone with children: Yes
Do you drink alcohol? No
Do you do any drugs or have any addictions? No
Are you willing to relocate: Yes, but not immediatley ( once son is a bit older )
Hijab preference: Hijab not required, but highly preferred
Did you convert: No
Interests & Hobbies: Family events, social time with close freinds, cafe, road trip, romantic outing, time at home
More About Yourself: I am willing to give 100% even if my spouse isn't always able to give the same 100. I prefer to sit and talk rather than leave and get bitter and try to forget and ignore the issue. I am always willing to admit wrongs but would also like someone who takes pride in admitting hers, rather than feel they will be less is they admit they weren't perfect. My background is in behavioural psychology and I understand what is needed to make a relationship successful. I like to make people laugh and can sit in a room with nothing if I am with the right person and never get bored. I like going out 20% of the time but I prefer the peace of being home. I would say I am a mix between Islam and the west, but Islam wins whenever the two contradict except that I find it hard to let go of music so easily. I love being a dad and would love to be one again with my future wife, but if that is not possible or she does not want kids then I am happy with the experience I have had
Age Range: Not much older than me, but referrably younger within her 30’s - Im ok with ate 20’s but unlikely for them to accept
I prefer someone who is: Doesn’t matter
Nationality Preference: Lebanese or Iraqi ( lebanese preference)
Occupation: Dont have preference but having someone willing to help out in this western world where two income seems to be he only way to survive, rather than someone expecting luxury
Level of Education: No preference
Should she want children: Doesn’t Matter
Would you marry someone with children: Yes
Heights prefernce: No preference
Body Type: Average
More Information about the spouse you are seeking: Above all fears God- in the heart not just prayes and fasts. Akhlaq- knows that while I will do my best to be soft and gently it is up to her to bring peace to the home. I prefer her to complain to me day and night if something bothers her than to bottle it up and explode. Someone who understands that emotions are not the same as behaiors- we can feel upset but still act and speak ith respect and care. Someone who doesnt believe every argument is something to save as an excuse to run away, but a chance to learn and grow together. Someone who can leave their past trauma behind and not weigh the relationship down with what they experienced from someoneelse in their past. I don't care if she cooks or cleans on her own but I do care that she wants to try as a partner to do anything and everything with me. I want someone consistent in their actions, even if heir emotions vary from time to time. Someone soft and strong, not hard and weak. At the end I want someone as afraid to lose me as I would be afraid to lose them, that way no issue is bigger than the marriage and can be solved together as a team, not as enemies. Someone who is able to remember the 95% good even when the only thing they can think about is the 5% they hate in that moment. I dont care if she is divorced or single or widowed - as long as she doesn't allow her past to hurt our relationship